Welcome to the section where I’ll talk a little bit about personal development as I believe that it’s the biggest key to all success and happiness in life. Development means “progress”, progress is what inspires and motivates us to get more of it, so we never stop learning and take it as a life mission.
But there is the one unfortunate problem and the #1 reason why people usually don’t get on to the self-development path to explore the unknown. The world governments do not support this idea and concept, but rather suppress it so that they’ve got everything under control. Remember, if you want to control someone or masses of people, you cannot give them free will and teach them the self-development techniques that would make from anyone who wants the successful and happy person.
To control, you have to teach each individual from the small child what are the rules and how to behave. We get it from our parents and school. That kind of crap infects the child’s brain in the most important development stage of life, and literally mentally cripples them for the rest of their lives.
But there is nothing that couldn’t be fixed, learned and unlearned.
That is what is called “Personal Development”. First, we have to analyze, get down to the root of the problem cause and work the way out from there. All the good things and bad things that are so-called happening to us in life are only as much good or bad as we think. Nothing has the meaning unless you give it the meaning. So, what is very bad and frightening for the one person, doesn’t have to be bad and frightening for the other.
Some people never learned how to fail, go into the mistake, and learn from it. If this process becomes your daily habit, then after some time there won’t be a problem or failure that would scare you away because you learned how to deal with it through personal development techniques.
And it gets even better. Once you realize that only you and nobody else is the conductor of your own life, the entire thinking changes, the lucrative opportunities start to appear and the level of happiness goes through the roof!
The most of the people on the planet are so emotionally imbalanced, feeling that someone is controlling their life and never in a good way. There is one brilliant quote, “If you don’t get in control of your life, someone else will!”
This cannot be more truthful.
Personal development is a learning process just like any other. You have to put in your time and effort, focus and commitment, in order to make it work for you. The Rome wasn’t built in a day.
When you want to be a great artist, builder, or basketball player, you always have to put in the time and effort, dedication towards the outcome of being very good at something.
I noticed that so many people have the problem with self-development, psychology or spiritualism, simply because it’s something that isn’t visible. So they underrate the importance of it and all their life keep on encountering same problems. Have you ever heard of the 80/20 rule?
80% of all the success, achievements, and happiness in life is psychology (invisible), and just 20% is the actual strategy, techniques, marketing, (the visible).
The success comes from what we tell about us to ourselves the most of the time.
Go and do as many mistakes as possible and learn from them. The more mistakes you’ll do the faster learning process becomes, the faster you achieve your goals and outcomes.
There is some great training which I think is probably the best in the world, by Harv Eker, one of the early pioneers who was obsessed about finding out what makes the biggest difference in one person being successful and happy, and another being always unhappy and broke.
In the video is the list of his online training courses: